Látható&láthatatlan

It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.

It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive.

It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain!I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it, or fix it.

I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own, if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human.

It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul; if you can be faithlessand therefore trustworthy.

I want to know if you can see beauty even when it's not pretty, every day,and if you can source your own life from its presence.

I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, “Yes!”

It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up, after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done to feed the children.

It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back.

It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you, from the inside, when all else falls away.

I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.

Smiling is infectious,
You catch it like the flu,
When someone smiled at me today,
I started smiling too.
I passed around the corner,
and someone saw my grin,
When he smiled I realised,
I'd passed it on to him.
I thought about that smile,
Then I realised its worth,
A single smile just like mine,
Could travel round the earth.
So if you feel a smile begin,
Don't leave it undetected -
Let's start an epidemic quick
And get the world infected!

We all have strengthes and weaknesses.

What's right for one person may not be right for another.

There are things that are important to me, that you don't care about at all!

And sometimes your behavior doesn't make any sense to me.

But I want for us to understand each other, and communicate well, because we live together in the same world.

I know I can't expect you to want the same things that I want.

We are not the same person, so we will not always see things the same way.

I have my own Thoughts and my own Ideas, that may or may not fit into your vision of who I should be.

By learning more about my own Personality, and about other Personality Types, I can come to a better understanding of my strengths and weaknesses.

I can improve my interpersonal relationships, realign my expectations towards others, and gain a better self-knowledge that will help me define and achieve goals.

So, who am I? This is a tricky question to answer as I'm not always entirely sure who I am from one moment to the next. In fact, all I'm certain of is that I'm not quite the same person as I was before that moment.

To keep things simple I am just a girl who...

Likes & Dislikes:

• COFFEE: Long coffee with rice dream and cinnamon
• PET PEEVE: Wasted time
• FILM: The Thorn Birds
• RISK: Red lights, news
• HOROSCOPE: Pisces
• SLEEP: Variable. Depends on my activity.
• ODDITY: Love to be alone
• QUESTION: "Why?"
• HOBBY: Meditation on life and people, skating, cooking, reading!!! webdesign, writing poems, taking photos - PhotoShop, drawing and painting, doityourself, hiking, nature, animals, gardens, helping people if they get lost
• CD: Delta Goodrem-Innocent eyes
• DRINK: Herbal tea, Rice dream. Tomato juice
• CABLE CHANNELS: BBC
• TV SHOW: Friends
• FOOD: Muesli without sugar, Branflakes, Joghurt, Fruits, Vegetables, Nuts
• GUILTY PLEASURE: Buying plants, reading the news
• GIFT: Love
• WRITING INSTRUMENT: a Parker pen with my name on it
• GOAL: To feel useful in everyday life
• TECHNO-STUFF: My digital camera
• COMPUTER PROGRAMS: PhotoShop
• MOOD: Changes all the time
• SIGNATURE: Gitta
• INTERACTION: Instant messaging
• STRESS BUSTER: Garden center, Church, Library, Museum
• SHOES: Comfortable
• HEALTH RISK: Not sleeping
• SOUND: Birds
• EXERCISE SECRET: Walking
• PLACE TO BE:  Where I am  happy
• STUDIES: Garden and Landscape Architecture, Rural and Urban  Development, Garden Design in Wales, Arts, shop-assistant course, shopkeeper course, flower arrangement course

„ What we think is less than what we know: what we know is less than what we love: what we love is so much less than what there is. And to that precise extent we are so much less than what we are. " - R. D. Laing

„ For me there is only the traveling on the paths that have heart, on any path that may have heart.There I travel, and the only worthwhile challenge for me is to traverse its full length. " - Carlos Castaneda

„ Humans can say such big words that will shake the earth. God’s one word is worth much more in your heart than anything else in all the world. "  - Trausch Liza

S. Weöres:

I too came to conquer the world
and I can’t even conquer myself.

I can only lay siege with heavy stones,
or cheat and deceive.

Once I even wanted to be a lord;
but would I be but a good servant!

Alas, there is only one servant: God,
and infinity swarms with lords.

But I was born to try...

Doing everything that I believe in
Going by the rules that I've been taught
More understanding of what's around me
And protected from the walls of love

All that you see is me
And all I truly believe

Ref.: That I was born to try
I've learned to love
Be understanding
And believe in life
But you've got to make choices
Be wrong or right
Sometimes you've got to sacrifice the things you like

But I was born to try

No point in talking what you should have been
And regretting the things that went on
Life's full of mistakes, destinies and fate
Remove the clouds look at the bigger picture

And all that you see is me
And all I truly believe

I've learned to love
Be understanding
And believe in life
But you've got to make choices
Be wrong or right
Sometimes you've got to sacrifice the things you like